The Road to Fertility

All of us can answer differently to the above question! I would say "Creepy Crawlies" of the world..but that does not mean that I would not try to face them when the situation demands, avoid as I may! When it comes to Fears, its like an omnipresent chapter in our lives, the face of it may differ from person to person. But one thing we all are scared of.."Failure"!! How we deal with the fear is another aspect. Some may deny it, others would ignore it, few may succumb to it. Best is to deal with it! It is the same in our journey to fertility, we pass the same stages of denial, ignorance and for some , succumbing to it. Then there are those brave souls who deal with it! Hats off to them!! A woman who has a mortal fear of needles, going through a fertility treatment is to me like a brave soldier who has pulled up her socks and gathered her armamentarium of strengths and has declared war on the hurdles in between her and the conception she so desires!Even though she holl

The big M "Miscarriage" is like an uninvited demon that casts its shadow in the unsuspecting lives of approximately 15% of women in reproductive years. The first reaction to a miscarriage is invariably of shock followed by a shrug of the shoulder and "Well, I shall manage" attitude. Most of the women, and also doctors would not attach much importance to the incidence. "Its known to happen! literature quotes XYZ %" is what we all hear and also, I may say, tell our patients! Its when it happens for the second time that a thought is spared to what could be going wrong! By the time its third occurrence, all the literature has gone out of the back door, especially for the woman undergoing the trauma. Then we sit down and ask serious questions and put a label "Bad Obstetric History" on an already suffering girl! We are not wrong in doing so medically as the definition of BOH does mention 3 or more recurrent abortions. What we have to think here is not