What does a patient want

When a couple approach a fertility center, they have come with hope and disappointments both. It will depend upon the consultant which of these sentiments they can tap into and cultivate further. Fertility treatment is a very elective and personal process and it should remain as such even at a fertility clinic. The couple seeks understanding, not sympathy and facts not promises. They also have the baggage of numerous doubts and queries. If a consultant thinks they can handle all this and the scientific excahnge in fifteen minutes, they need to think again. Time is one essential requisite that the doctor has to offer the couple approaching them. It is then the rapport is built up and leads to confidence building in the services offered.

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